State of Delirium

Bark At The Moon

I finally got a half-decent picture of my other little monster. This is Arya; the newest addition to my family. She’s a cranky little girl, but I love her….most of the time, anyway. Did you know that Sugar Gliders sometimes bark at night? BARK. Like a dog. Like a tiny, spiteful, sleep-stealing dog. True story.

Allstate Foundation Purple Purse Challenge ~ Help Save a Life

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Since Allstate and The Allstate Foundation believe all victims should be #FreeToWalk (our 2016 campaign theme!), Allstate employees at 80 campuses around the country will host Purple Purse Walks. Help me meet my fundraising goal to support Purple Purse! Funds raised will be divided evenly among the nearly 200 nonprofit organizations participating in the 2016 Purple Purse Challenge.

Domestic Violence kills an average of three women a day and is the leading cause of injury for women ages 18-44.

This is the Truth: Domestic violence affects one in four women in her lifetime – that’s more women than breast cancer, ovarian cancer and lung cancer combined. Most people think only of physical abuse when they consider domestic violence, yet financial abuse happens in 99% of all domestic violence cases. The number one reason domestic violence survivors stay or return to an abusive relationship is that they don’t have the financial resources to break free. Physical abuse leaves bruises and scars. Financial abuse is an Invisible Weapon that traps victims in abusive relationships.

What Is Domestic Violence? Domestic violence is a pattern of assaultive and coercive behaviors that a person uses against their current or former intimate partner. It happens in relationships where the abuser and the victim are (or were) dating, living together, married or divorced. Domestic violence is purposeful behavior. A batterer’s pattern of abusive acts is directed at gaining and maintaining control over the victim.

What is Financial Abuse? Financial abuse prevents victims from acquiring, using or maintaining financial resources. Financial abuse is just as effective in controlling a victim as a lock and key. Abusers employ isolating tactics such as preventing their spouse or partner from working or accessing a bank, credit card or transportation. They might tightly monitor and restrict their partner’s spending. Victims of financial abuse live a controlled life where they have been purposely put into a position of dependence, making it hard for the victim to break free. In 99% of all domestic violence cases, financial abuse helps keep victims trapped in the abusive relationship.

Domestic violence affects us all. It costs the U.S. economy more than $8.3 billion each year, is the leading cause of family homelessness and the single largest category of calls received by local police. Courageous survivor requests for help are up, but staffing and budgets for services are down.

On an average day in 2015, more than 12,000 pleas for help from victims went unmet due to lack of funding. But you can help; click here to donate

Pocket Inspiration

“Life’s but a walking shadow, a poor player that struts and frets his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.” Macbeth Quote (Act V, Scene V).

As the sun sets on another seemingly endless day, I find myself verging on the edge of a despair I can’t quite wrangle into submission. Every day, I tell myself, every day is a gift to be enjoyed, to be cherished… And yet reconciling wisdom with practice is a virtue I have yet to fully embrace. Evermore, however, I try. This effort; finding beauty in the forlorn, finding joy in the perfunctory, is one of many paths I walk to keep the proverbial demons at bay.

As of late I find myself moved by the beauty that others see in their world. And what a time we live in for such a desire; for your world and mine are preciously intertwined in the wonderful world of cyberspace. In a flick of the wrist and a few slights of hand, I am in Venice, Prague, Italy, the corner market… Through your eyes I experience the world in a million shades of glory. And suddenly, my world is brightened by your vision and that which hid from me previously shows it’s face with lips moving, eyes gleaming, and spirit on fire.

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